Positivity

Reclaim Your Life and Thrive Again with These 7 Simple Steps

Sometimes it feels like you’ve lost a sense of power over your life. You get stuck in a rut and feel like you’re no longer in control. 
 
I have felt that way many times before, life has a funny way of throwing us off course. Here are 7 easy steps that have helped me reclaim my life and thrive again when I’m feeling down.

 

  1. Reconnect with Your Why 

 

Reconnecting with your why is crucial if you feel like you’ve lost your way. Take a moment to think about what is genuinely important to you, what inspires you and brings you joy.
 
Whether your why is following your passion, changing the world, or just enjoying life on your terms – take the time to identify it. Reconnecting with your why will restore your sense of purpose and remind you to keep going.

 

  1. Accept Change with Open Arms 

 

Change is inevitable, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and transformation. Change should be welcomed with open arms and an open mind instead of resistance.
 
Give yourself permission to let go of things that are no longer useful to you so that new opportunities can arise.

 

Remember, every ending is a new beginning in disguise. Have faith in life’s journey and understand that you need to change to grow.
 
Once I realized this, I stopped fighting change at every corner and embraced it. Embracing change allows you to go with the flow of life and feel more at ease and content.
 
Stop trying to control everything! Have faith it will all work out. 

 

  1. Set Boundaries 

 

Boundaries are the cornerstone of self-love and self-respect. Set appropriate boundaries in every aspect of your life to protect your wellbeing.
 
Say yes to experiences that uplift your spirit and serve your highest good, and say no to things that drain your energy or clash with your values.
 
People-pleasing is a plague, it took me a long time to get rid of the disease. When you do something solely for the purpose of pleasing someone else, you’re no longer prioritizing your wants and needs. In fact, you’re actually signaling to yourself that making someone else happy is more important than your own happiness.
 
Remember, boundaries are not barriers; they’re bridges to reclaiming your life and your power. 

 

  1. Practice Radical Self-Care

 

Self-care is an act of self-love and self-preservation. Make self-care a non-negotiable in your life by carving out time each day to nurture your body, mind, and spirit. Make self-care an unavoidable priority.
 
Whether it’s meditation, indulging in hobbies, or journaling prioritize activities that replenish your energy and bring you joy. 
 
As a person whose love language is physical touch, I prioritize my shower and body care routines as a form of self-care. In addition to frequent journaling and meditation to clear my mind and anxiety. 

 

  1. Follow Your Intuition

 

Your intuition is your inner guide, guiding you toward your highest potential.
 
Tune in to your thoughts and let them lead you toward your desires. Trust your gut instincts, follow your intuition, and take inspired action toward your dreams.
 
Remember, you are the author of your own story,  your intuition is your greatest ally – USE IT!

 

  1. Surround Yourself with Support

 

If you don’t want to, you don’t have to go through this experience alone. Surround yourself with a tribe of like-minded people who motivate you and support you.
 
Seek out mentors, and friends who inspire you, challenge you, and encourage you to become the best version of yourself.
 
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with, so choose your tribe wisely! 

 

  1. Celebrate Your Wins

 

Whether it’s a big milestone or a small victory, every step forward is worth celebrating.
 
Acknowledge your growth and remember you are a force to be reckoned with. Be proud of yourself and all that you’ve accomplished – this will motivate you to keep going.
 
Celebrate making it to the end of this post! You’re staying curious and arming yourself with information to spark change, I’m happy for you.